The standardisation of the human existence in society makes us try to fit into it in a way that we end up cutting pieces of us to do so.
The Australian Bureau of Statistics attempted to describe the average Australian, which was apparently a woman. However, when they tried to find that woman, they could not. When attempting to find the “normal”, no one is found.
“While the description of the average Australian may sound quite typical, the fact that no-one meets all these criteria shows that the notion of the ‘average’ masks considerable (and growing) diversity in Australia.” Australian Bureau of Statistics
That goes for everything in human existence. It is a spectrum. Just like Autism.